Wednesday, August 08, 2007

the harmless flirtation

i had my feminine ego stroked to day, for want of a better way to put it. when a good looking man puts on the charm, and you feel that little inner flutter, your facial muscles automatically break into a smile, a happy feeling all together.

is there anything that exists in the world that can be termed the harmless flirtation.i am still happy after my little cyber chat today.

have all but forgotten that 24 hours ago, i was facing the mirror lamenting the fact, that nothing fits.and feeling like "ugly betty" not selma hayek :)
hey, i'm a woman and who doesn't like their ego stroked, every know and then.Alas this "charming" man, lives on another continent, and a friendship struck up on holiday,is teased by the online chat, when one or the other has a moment.that little regret, that you never took the opportunity when you could have, tantalised at the odd moment, by the flirtatious cyber note.....that note,.. and the feeling it engenders, that you are attractive to another human being, is quite heady....a happy feeling,sexy to. when you are on another continent faced just by the flashing screen of you lap top, the possibilities are endless, you can be flirtatious,coy,sexy,and all this from a secure comfort zone, no commitments necessary.

a happy reminder that your are a sexual being,attractive and feminine. i think we forget that about ourselves sometimes, life takes over and we take things for granted.

5 comments:

Xoff said...

wow! i like the new look of the blog

Hip Grandma said...

Go ahead it is only natural!

africanfragments said...

x off. thanks, was playing around. still haven't decided what i can improve :)

hip grandma: isn't it just. having fun with it

Usha said...

I agree totally how in our struggle to be so many things we forget that we are sexual beings too. I guess that is why these moments on its natural awakening shock us into an awakening! :)
And remote relationships - can there be anything more frustrating than that - a thousand words cannot make up a movement of the eye!

africanfragments said...

usha, well said

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